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Grammar: Difficulty » 〜づらい

To express that an action is difficult, the auxiliary adjective may be づらい is appended to the verb stem.

Usage Notes

〜づらい describes difficulty from the doer’s point of view: the action is possible, but emotionally hard or physically uncomfortable.

Compared with 〜にくい, it feels more subjective. It fits difficulty that comes from the speaker’s feelings or situation, not the object’s objective properties.

Properties of づらい as an auxiliary adjective include:

  • Used with verbs that involve intention.
  • Action can be accomplished, but requires hard work to do so (has obstacles to overcome).
  • More subjective to the person doing the task than にくい and がたい.

Further Reading

Examples

Difficult to meet up with 〜づらい

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜づらい in Japanese, with examples from manga.
キラキラ100% » Volume 2 » Page 158

After recovering from over-dieting, Miku quickly gained back the weight she had lost. She receives a text message from her boyfriend, Shibutani, about scheduling time to meet up between their summer classes, but she turns him down.

みく:
「ごめんね渋谷(しぶたに)
“I'm sorry, Shibutani.”
「なんかやっぱり()づらい…」
“It's still difficult to meet with you...”
「また(ふと)っちゃって」
“I've put on weight again...”

Difficult to say with 〜づらい

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜づらい in Japanese, with examples from manga.
俺物語!! » Volume 1 » Page 141

Takeo feels Rinko is keeping something from him, but can’t figure out what. Makoto and Ai meet with Rinko to confront her about it.

(あい):
()って! 猛男(たけお)()づらいんでしょ? 猛男(たけお)()わないから!」
“Tell me! It's difficult to say to Takeo, right? But I won't tell Takeo!”
(まこと):
絶対(ぜったい)()う…」
“She'll definitely tell him...”

Difficult to see the text with 〜づらい

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜づらい in Japanese, with examples from manga.
好きな子がめがねを忘れた » Volume 1 » Page 12

Komura shares his history book with Mie. Since Mie forgot her glasses, she leans in as she strains to see the material written in the book.

小村(こむら):
「どどどど どうしたの!? の!?!?」
“Wh-wh-what's wrong?!”
三重(みえ):
「ちょっと()づらくて
“It's a bit difficult to see...”