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Grammar: Difficulty » 〜がたい

The auxiliary adjective がたい says that an action is “very difficult” or “nearly impossible”, usually for emotional or psychological reasons.

Usage Notes

がたい marks an action as extremely hard to carry out. The obstacle is often the speaker’s judgment, feelings, or moral resistance.

It appears mainly in formal, written, or literary language and is stronger than にくい or づらい.

It favors mental and emotional verbs such as ()う, (しん)じる, (わす)れる, and 理解(りかい)する over routine physical actions. For example, ()べがたい, “hard to eat”, is rare, while 理解(りかい)しがたい, “hard to understand”, is common.

Formation

  1. Verb stem + がたい

    • ()う (to say) to ()いがたい (difficult to say)
    • (わす)れる (to forget) to 忘れがたい (difficult to forget)

The kanji form 難い is commonly used, though it may also appear in hiragana as がたい.

Further Reading

Examples

Difficult to discard a photo with 〜がたい

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜がたい in Japanese, with examples from manga.
思い、思われ、ふり、ふられ » Volume 7 » Page 30

Inui’s class is gathering photos of couples for a school festival contest. Another couple comes to join in.

(いぬい):
「どっちの画像(がぞう)プリントします?」
“Which image should I print?”
彼女(かのじょ):
「えーーー どうするー?」
“Oh my gosh... What should we do?”
彼氏(かれし):
「どっちも()がたいねーーー」
“Both are hard to abandon.”

Difficult to pass on with 〜がたい

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜がたい in Japanese, with examples from manga.
ご注文はうさぎですか? » Volume 1 » Page 46

Visiting her new friend’s family’s café, Cocoa ponders over which menu item to order.

ココア:
「わー抹茶(まっちゃ)パフェもいいし クリームあんみつ白玉(しらたま)ぜんざいも ()がたいなあ」
“Wow, the green tea parfait is good, but the cream anmitsu and dumpling red bean soup are difficult to pass on.”

Hard to believe with 〜がたい

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜がたい in Japanese, with examples from manga.
怪盗セイント・テール » Volume 1 » Page 74

A student from a lower grade enters the classroom. She stops and stares at Asuka Jr., one of the boys in the class.

涼子(りょうこ):
「ある特定(とくてい)のところに集中(しゅうちゅう)してない? しかも」
“Isn't she focused on one particular area? And on top of that...”
恭子(きょうこ):
「ものすごく(しん)がたいところに……」
“It's in a frightfully hard to believe area...”