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Grammar: Permission

〜させてください asks permission for the speaker to act: “please let me ~” or “please allow me to ~”. It often assumes that the listener is likely to agree.

Usage Notes

In casual situations, speakers shorten the request to 〜させて or 〜させてもいい?. When speaking to a superior, 〜させていただけませんか is more deferential.

Formation

This pattern is built by taking the causative form of a verb (using the auxiliary させる or せる depending on the verb type), converting it to the て-form, and adding ください.
  1. 五段(ごだん) verb stem + causative + て + ください
    • (すこ)しだけ(はな)させてください
    • "Please let me speak for a moment."
  2. 一段(いちだん) verb stem + causative + て + ください
    • 子供(こども)たちに日本語(にほんご)(おし)させてください
    • "Please allow me to teach Japanese to the children."
  3. する + causative + て + ください
    • この仕事(しごと)させてください
    • "Please let me do this job."
  4. 来る + causative + て + ください
    • 明日(あした)会議(かいぎ)()させてください
    • "Please let me come to tomorrow's meeting."
  5. The negative is 〜させないでください
    • 子供(こども)たちに日本語(にほんご)(おし)させないでください
    • "Please don't let me teach Japanese to the children."

Further Reading

Examples

Please let me help you with 〜させてください

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜させてください in Japanese, with examples from manga.
ARIA The MASTERPIECE » Volume 3 » Page 287

Akari meets Woody as he’s out on a delivery run. He’s in a spot of trouble because he’s lost his map, and there isn’t enough time for him to go back and get it. Akari is familiar with the city and realizes she can lend him her knowledge.

灯里(あかり):
「あっ… あの!」
“Ah, um!”
「もしも(わたし)でよかったら… 手伝(てつだ)させてくさだいっ!」
“If I would be okay... Please let me help you!”

Please let me hold the baby pandas with 〜させてください

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜させてください in Japanese, with examples from manga.
しろくまカフェ bis » Volume 2 » Page 84

Rin Rin loves pandas such that when he makes a delivery to Panda’s home, he can’t resist the cuteness of the younger siblings. Panda Mama takes out her purse to cover the cost of the delivery, but Rin Rin refuses to accept payment.

リンリン:
()パンダ()っこさせてくださいッ!!」
Please let me hold the baby pandas!!”
パンダママ:
「…いいけど 代金(だいきん)(はら)うわよ」
“That's fine, but... I'll also pay the bill!”

Please let me pay with 〜せてください

Learn the meaning and usage of the grammar 〜させてください in Japanese, with examples from manga.
レンタルおにいちゃん » Volume 1 » Page 95

To help ease Kanami’s sorrow due to her situation in life, Makoto offers to let her rent time with him as an older brother. On the first rental, Kanae says she will pay him, something Makoto wasn’t expecting.

叶実(かなみ):
「レンタルはお(かね)がかかります」
“A rental costs money.”
「だからお(かね)(はら)せてください
“Therefore, please let me pay.”