Giving up with

(さじ)()げる means “to give up” or “to throw in the towel”. It describes abandoning an effort or responsibility because the situation seems hopeless or too difficult to handle.

(さじ)()げる literally means “throw the spoon”.

Origins

The traditional explanation traces the phrase to doctors who mixed medicine with a spoon. Putting the spoon aside meant that further treatment seemed hopeless.

The modern phrase applies to any problem that someone has stopped trying to solve.

Usage Notes

Use it when someone:

  • abandons a task because it seems impossible
  • stops trying to help a person
  • gives up on a relationship or project

It suggests resignation after repeated attempts have failed. English equivalents include “throw in the towel” and “wash one’s hands of it”.

Examples

Giving up catching a cat with 匙を投げる

Learn the meaning and usage of the idiom 匙を投げる in Japanese, with examples from manga.
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Eve takes the job of catching a cat that ran away from its owner. Following a successful mid-air catch off the roof and into a tree, Eve returns the cat to its owner.

(じょう)ちゃん:
「よかったぁ うちの()すばしっこすぎて業者(ぎょうしゃ)さんに(さじ)()げられて…」
“Thank goodness! Our little one was so quick that the hired help gave up on us...”
「ありがとう 魔女(まじょ)さん」
“Thank you, Miss Mage.”