Forms and appearances with

様 is most commonly used as a ‘honorific’ (〜さま) appended to names of people or organizations to express respect. It also conveys meanings such as “appearance or condition” and “method or type” of an object.

Etymology

This kanji is the simplified form of 樣. The older character connects with 木 (tree) plus a phonetic element in the 羊 series, with an early sense tied to shape or pattern.

Appearance

(State)

様子(ようす) is how someone or something looks, seems, or is doing. It can describe a person’s condition, the mood of a place, or the state of a situation.

It combines 様 (appearance) with 子 (aspect) to show the way something looks.

Manga panel from キラキラとギラギラ showing example of Interpretating dancing flower petals with 解釈.
キラキラとギラギラ » Volume 2 » Page 32

As she models for a sketch, Lulu recalls seeing Hideki blowing flower petals into the air. She brings it up to him.

秀樹(ひでき):
「花弁(はなびら)が舞(ま)う様子(ようす)を賢察(けんさつ)していたんだ」
“I was observing the petals as they danced.”
「観察(かんさつ)を重(かさ)ねた先(さき)に独自(どくじ)の解釈(かいしゃく)や表現(ひょうげん)が生(う)まれる」
“Through repeated observation, unique interpretations and expressions emerge.”
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(Pattern)

模様(もよう) means a pattern or design. It can also describe how a situation stands or what appears likely to happen.

It combines 模 (form) with 様 (appearance) to show the way a form appears.

Manga panel from ご注文はうさぎですか? showing example of Drinking completely with 〜終わる.
ご注文はうさぎですか? » Volume 1 » Page 94

Chino explains the steps to perform coffee fortune telling.

チノ:
「おじいちゃんのカフェ・ド・マンシーは当(あ)たりすぎて怖(こわ)いと有名(ゆうめい)でした」
“Grandpa's Café de Mancy was famous for predictions so accurate they were scary.”
「飲(の)み終(お)わった後(あと)に残(のこ)ったコーヒーの模様(もよう)で占(うらな)うんです」
“After you've finished drinking it, we tell fortunes from the patterns left in the coffee.”
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(Strangeness)

異様(いよう) describes something strange, unsettling, or conspicuously unlike the norm.

It combines 異 (strange) with 様 (appearance) to show a strange appearance or manner.

Manga panel from 名探偵コナン showing example of Strange behavior with 異様.
名探偵コナン » Volume 21 » Page 119

Shin’ichi reveals the details of a murder. The culprit asks how Shin’ichi discovered the hidden weapon, and he explains it was due to a specific movement the culprit made.

新一(しんいち):
「見逃(みのが)しやすい細(こま)かな点(てん)こそ何(なに)よりも重要(じゅうよう)なんです…」
“It's precisely those subtle details that are easy to overlook that matter most of all...”
「あの時(とき)のあなたの何気(なにげ)ない仕草(しぐさ)が…」
“That casual gesture of yours back then...”
「僕(ぼく)の目(め)には異様(いよう)な行動(こうどう)として焼(や)きついてただけの事(こと)ですよ…」
“It's just that it was etched in my mind as strange behavior...”
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Honorific Address

(Young lady)

お嬢様(おじょうさま) is a respectful term for someone’s daughter, especially one from a wealthy family. It can also suggest a sheltered young woman.

It combines 嬢 (young lady) with 様 (honorific form) to show a young lady spoken of with respect.

Manga panel from ご注文はうさぎですか? showing example of Too cute pajamas with 〜すぎる.
ご注文はうさぎですか? » Volume 1 » Page 70

Chiya and Syaro unexpectedly have to stay the night at Chino’s home.

シャロ:
「チノちゃんにパジャマ借(か)りたのはいいけどちょっとかわいすぎない?」
“Borrowing pajamas from Chino-chan is fine, but aren't they a little too cute?”
「いつもはジャージなのに」
“Even though she usually wears a tracksuit.”
千夜(ちや):
「本物(ほんもの)のお嬢様(じょうさま)みたい♪」
“You look like a real young lady♪”
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(Madam)

奥様(おくさま) is a respectful term for another person’s wife, a female head of household, or a proprietress. The more casual form is 奥(おく)さん; neither form normally refers to one’s own wife.

It combines 奥 (inner part) with 様 (honorific form) to show a lady of the inner household addressed respectfully.

Manga panel from ARIA The MASTERPIECE showing example of Worth the effort to build a garden with 〜甲斐がある.
ARIA The MASTERPIECE » Volume 5 » Page 43

A customer asks Akari to stop the gondola as she sees a house with a fantastic flower garden. The customer asks if it’s a special place, to which Alicia explains it’s an ordinary house. She says the flower bed and gardening are a barometer to measure the caliber of the woman of the household.

アリシア:
「ネオ・ヴェネツィアの街中(まちなか)は残念(ざんねん)ながら自然(しぜん)の緑(みどり)が少(すく)ないですから」
“Since there's regrettably little natural greenery in the city of Neo-Venezia...”
「きっと奥様(おくさま)方(がた)もがんばり甲斐(がい)があるんでしょうね」
“...surely the housewives also find it worth the effort.”
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