Mutuality and appearance with

相 is a kanji meaning to observe or look closely in Japanese.

From the idea of carefully looking and judging what you see, 相 extends to appearance and aspect (the “way something looks”). In compounds, it is also widely used for mutual relationships (like “with each other”) and for ministers or high officials.

Etymology

This kanji is an ideogrammic compound comprised of 木 (tree) and 目 (eye). It depicts an eye looking at a tree, expressing the idea of examining something by sight: to see, to observe, and to judge.

From that concrete act of seeing comes the more abstract sense of appearance or aspect: what is visible on the surface, or the “state of things” as it presents itself. By extension and borrowing in Sino-Japanese vocabulary, 相 is also used in words for mutual actions (doing something “to each other”) and in titles like 首相(しゅしょう) where it means a minister.

Alignment

(Corresponding)

相当(そうとう) means suitable or equivalent to a standard. As an adverb, it means considerably or quite.

It combines 相 (mutual) with 当 (appropriate) to show mutually appropriate.

Example 1 of 2: A pretty clean room with 相当
Example 1 of 2
Manga panel from たいようのいえ showing example of A pretty clean room with 相当.
たいようのいえ » Volume 1 » Page 87

Hiro lets Mao move into his sister’s bedroom, as Hina is living with relatives. After, he comes up with a list of rules that Mao needs to follow if she’s to keep living there.

基(ひろ):
「…さて 片付(かたづ)け…」
“Now then, cleaning...”
「できるのかな おまえ…」
“I wonder if you can do it.”
「俺(おれ) 陽菜(ひな)の部屋(へや)相当(そうとう)キレイにしてたんだぞ」
“I kept Hina's room pretty clean, you know.”
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Example 2 of 2: Corresponding letters of the alphabet with 相当
Example 2 of 2
Manga panel from 名探偵コナン showing example of Corresponding letters of the alphabet with 相当.
名探偵コナン » Volume 7 » Page 80

Following a series of murders, Conan discovers a message hidden in sheet music. He explains it to Ran.

コナン:
「ピアノの鍵盤(けんばん)の左端(ひだりはし)から順(じゅん)に、アルファベットをあてはめて…」
“Starting from the leftmost key on the piano keyboard, I assigned each key a letter...”
「メッセージの文字(もじ)に相当(そうとう)する音(おと)を、譜面(ふめん)に書(か)きしるしただけだよ…」
“I simply wrote down the notes corresponding to the letters of the message on the sheet music...”
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(Compatibility)

相性(あいしょう) means compatibility between people or things, whether their qualities work well together.

It combines 相 (mutual) with 性 (nature) to show the nature between two things (their compatibility).

Manga panel from それでも歩は寄せてくる showing example of Compatability fortune with 相性.
それでも歩は寄せてくる » Volume 15 » Page 17

At the school festival, Ayumu and Urushi stop by the affinity fortune telling booth while Maki is on duty. Maki holds out a box with an opening on top, and says the need to pull out a single card together.

マキ:
「0〜100の点数(てんすう)が書(か)いてるからそれで相性(あいしょう)がわかるんだよ」
“Your compatibility is determined by the score written from 0 to 100.”
「もちろん100点(てん)が一番(いちばん)いいやつ」
“Of course, 100 points is the best score.”
歩(あゆむ):
「二人(ふたり)でですか?」
“Together?”
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Aspects

(Truth)

真相(しんそう) means the truth or actual facts behind an event, beyond appearances and rumors.

It combines 真 (true) with 相 (aspect) to show the true aspect of something.

Manga panel from 名探偵コナン showing example of Truth behind the murders with 真相.
名探偵コナン » Volume 15 » Page 35

Conan determines the culprit in a series of murders. However, thre’s no one around he can use as a conduit for revealing his reasoning. When Ran scolds Conan for wandering around, he accidentally drops an item Professor Agasa made for him, a wireless phone in the form of a large earring. As Ran picks it up, Conan hides and using his bowtie voice changer to sound like Shin’ichi as he calls Ran on the earring phone. He explains that Conan filled him in on the details.

新一(しんいち):
「そこで、蘭(らん)に頼(たの)みがある…」
“So with that, I have a favor to ask of you...”
蘭:
「頼(たの)み?」
“A favor?”
新一:
「オレの代(か)わりに事件(じけん)の真相(しんそう)をみんなに話(はな)してくれ!」
“In my place, tell everyone the truth of the situation!”
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Interaction

(Consultation)

相談(そうだん) means consulting someone or discussing a problem to seek advice and decide what to do.

It combines 相 (mutual) with 談 (talk) to show talking something over together.

Manga panel from ひとりぼっちの○○生活 showing example of Consult us first with 相談.
ひとりぼっちの○○生活 » Volume 2 » Page 52

While staying in Japan, Sotoka lives alone in the apartment building her parents own. Aru asks if Sotoka isn’t lonely living alone, but Sotoka says it’s all right.

ソトカ:
「大丈夫(だいじょうぶ)じゃなくなったら帰国(きこく)しますし」
“If it gets bad, I'll return to my home country.”
なこ:
「……その前(まえ)に相談(そうだん)してくれよ」
“Before that, consult us first!”
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